I am so sorry that you had a such a terribly negative experience after opening your marriage. It obviously was not the right direction for your marriage. But hindsight is 20/20. However, we cannot predict the outcome of all open marriages based on the experience of just one that failed. It works extremely well for me and my husband as it does for many other couples. I do hope you are able to find your happiness. Thanks so much for taking the time to read my article and share a comment.