I love this distinction between being sexy and sexual. And I wonder why there is such a negative connotation to the latter. If a woman is sexual, she must be a whore, right? Be sexy and look the part, but do not ever deliver any kind of sexual satisfaction for fear of being labeled a slut. But why? Is a sexy and sexually confident woman intimidating? And whom is she is intimidating? All questions that I now must ponder…perhaps something I will write about in the future!