Shelbee On The Edge
2 min readJan 7, 2022

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Thank you very much! I have to be honest with you…I am still trying to figure out the psychological intricacies of females in general. We are most definitely the more confusing of the genders and I am the first to admit that. It really does come down to communication though and effective communication is something that either gender can master if they actually attempt it. But I find that most humans in general do prefer to hide from the hard stuff rather than face it head on. So rather than having an uncomfortable conversation, many will choose to live in the discomfort of whatever is bothering them. I will never understand it as a person who never ignores the so-called elephant in the room. If I spot the elephant, I want the elephant known, then I want the elephant gone, and I want it all done as quickly as possible. If that analogy makes any sense at all! Anyway, communication is the key to resolving any problem…but you already know that. You just might need some help getting your wife to communicate more effectively. And I can tell you for a fact that you are not alone in that battle…basically every married man I have ever met who was having extra marital sex was doing it for this exact same reason! Sex is important in relationships and when one person just pulls it out of the equation completely, they cannot entirely blame their partner for seeking what they need elsewhere.

I wish you much luck on your journey and I hope you can find a resolution soon! Thank you so much for supporting my work here! I really appreciate it.

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Shelbee On The Edge
Shelbee On The Edge

Written by Shelbee On The Edge

Michelle is a passionate scholar and a lover of words with a driving desire to help others in the pursuit of becoming the best possible versions of themselves.

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