Thanks for looking out! But yes, my husband is retired now so we are not in danger of losing anything. And while I did write this before he retired, we both put a lot of thought and consideration into it before I published. If it had to come down to me fighting the fight for our freedom to love whomever and however many we choose, I would have fought that fight to the bitter end and my husband would have supported me and fought right beside me. Some Army rules are just so silly. I am not in the Army and never was and therefore I can sleep with whomever I want and the Army never could punish me…although I have been reprimanded by some commanders over the years…but I just laughed at them and reminded them that I am not a soldier! I wish you a rewarding and successful time as an Army wife!