This is such a fantastic article! I have been in a polyamorous marriage for about the past 4 year and our story is so similar in that we didn't even know this was an option. It is how we have regained the feelings of butterflies...by having relationships with new people. And then my husband and I can share those stories and feelings with each in the most amazing ways. While my marriage has stayed in tact and grown stronger from polyamory, there are so many other ways that it can help our relationships as well. Thank you for sharing your story!